If you've been apprehensive about trying out the online meet market because of you're concerned about meeting the freaks the internet has to offer, don't worry and sign up. Why? I attract the weirdos everyone else is afraid of meeting. No fears for you.
But that's not what I'm here to talk about. Let's talk about pictures. Pictures in an online profile are a necessity. Sites aren't lying when they tell you you'll get more hits with a picture vs. without.
What I don't understand is why guys post some of the pictures of themselves.
1.) Guy in front of car
It says your occupation is waiter/student... I doubt the Lotus is yours. And even if it was, girls who aren't gold diggers will more than likely not be attracted to you based on the principle that you obviously believe this car is a pussy magnet. Girls who ARE gold diggers will jump up your ass so you can't say you don't want a gold digger in the profile and take pictures in front of high end cars in the parking lot of the Bennigan's you work at.
2.) Guy with scantily clad female(s)
What says, "I'm excellent boyfriend material" better than multiple pictures of you surrounded by Car Show/Random Alcoholic Beverage Hotties? If you're stupid you believe girls won't like these pictures because they're jealous. The truth is think of online like a bar: very few girls will approach the guy surrounded by females for a gambit of reasons. She may think that's the type of girl he's attracted to and look elsewhere, she may think you're a bit juvenile, or she just won't notice you because she's too busy checking out the hot chicks you're surrounded by. Hey, I can appreciate a good looking woman.
3.) Beer, Booze, Bongs
Um... you're 30. Why do you have pictures on your dating profile of you on your knees, tube in mouth, wasting perfectly good beer because you're too much of a bitch to hit the beer bong properly? Benefit of the doubt says it was that one night that you partied like a rockstar. Everyone has those nights. But as most of the population gets older, those nights hold less and less appeal. So why would you use every picture of your drunken ass from that one event on your profile? Save those for a few dates in. "It was such a crazy night..." stories can be funny and a turn on and relateable. Like I said, who hasn't had one of those nights? But if everyone one of your pictures show you shit-faced with beer in hand it can start to spell out "I have a drinking problem" sooner than "this is my fun-loving side".
4.) Group Photos
One group photo is alright if you've got others posted of yourself. But if it is your only picture or all your pictures are group pictures... Well, most girls won't want to do the detective work to figure out which guy is consistently in every photo to narrow the one guy down to being you and still not being sure at that point. The other downside is too many times have I looked at a guy's profile and thought, "He's eh but his friend is HOT!" You need to sell you, not your friends. Plus we want to get a good look at that adorable face of yours.
Bottom line is all of these examples are potentially cutting yourselves off at the knees gentlemen. You're leaving yourself way too open to interpretation and may be hurting yourself in the end because a girl is concerned she's gonna be dating a burping,farting frat boy. Granted, you may have been that at some point but let's get real: is that the face you REALLY want to show?
Pictures say 1,000 words.... you don't want them saying the wrong thing.
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